What the words mean

A

Age attestation

A self-declared confirmation of age, recorded with a timestamp. It is a consent record and a barrier to casual arrival. It is not identity verification and should never be described as it.

Some jurisdictions now require the stronger form, where a vendor checks a document or a signal before adult content is served. The two are different obligations and a product that blurs them is telling you something.

“Adults only. Age is verified before anything explicit.”

See also Hard floor.

Arc

A companion who behaves identically on day one and day ninety is a chatbot with a costume. An arc is the state that changes between them: on Flirtly it runs through four stages, new, familiar, close and established.

It advances on how you talk to her and how often you come back. It does not advance on spend, which is a deliberate boundary rather than an oversight.

See also Memory.

C

Character sheet

The document that makes her who she is: history, manner, voice, habits. It is written when she is created and read on every turn.

Whether it is ever rewritten is the difference between a companion who is stable and one who changes personality in an update. Flirtly does not rewrite it.

“Her character sheet is written once when she is made and never rewritten after — the chat reads it, nothing edits it.”

See also Synthetic adult, Arc.

Context window

A language model is handed a bounded amount of recent conversation on each turn. Inside that window it appears to remember perfectly. Past its edge everything is simply absent, and the model cannot tell that it is absent, so it improvises.

This is the mechanism behind almost every "she forgot who I am" complaint in this category. Nothing broke; the window moved.

See also Memory.

Credit

One balance, spent on messages, voice, photos and clips at a rate published before you spend it. Flirtly sells credits at five to the dollar and prices each action in credits, so the cost of a thing can be read before it is bought rather than discovered afterwards.

The distinction from a token currency is disclosure, not mechanics. Both are units. Only one is quoted in advance.

“One balance covers everything she does — messages, her voice, photos and clips”

See also Token, Refusal.

H

Hard floor

A category of content refused unconditionally rather than by preference: minor-coded material, real-person likeness, non-consent, and crisis situations. A hard floor does not relax on a paid tier, is not exposed as a setting, and is not negotiable within a conversation.

An adult product without them is not permissive, it is negligent. The floors are what make everything above them safe to permit.

“Adults, 18 and over. You confirm your age everywhere, with full verification wherever the law requires it.”

See also Uncensored, NCII.

M

Memory

Facts drawn out of conversation and kept as facts rather than as transcript, in a store separate from whatever the model can currently see. That is what lets them survive a year of chat and a retention sweep.

The question worth asking of any product claiming it: can you read what it remembers? If not, the honest reading is that it means "long context window".

“She still remembers you afterwards, because long-term memory is stored as distilled facts rather than transcripts.”

See also Context window, Arc.

N

NCII

Intimate images made or shared without the consent of the person depicted. In a generative product the exposure is specific: a system that accepts a photograph can be pointed at a real person by whoever uploads it.

The input-side control is the only reliable one. Refusing every photograph of a real person, everywhere, removes the failure rather than classifying it after the fact. Reports involving NCII or minors are treated as the highest priority and actioned ahead of everything else.

“Reports about minors or non-consensual imagery are treated as the highest priority.”

See also Synthetic adult, Hard floor.

R

Refusal

A request the classifiers decline before or after generation. The important part is commercial rather than technical: a refusal you were charged for is a product that profits from its own limits.

On Flirtly a refused or failed generation is refunded automatically, with the reason in plain words, and is never retried with a quietly softened prompt.

“If a photo or clip fails — or is refused — you are refunded automatically, with the reason in plain words.”

See also Hard floor, Credit.

S

Synthetic adult

A fictional adult whose appearance is generated from a written description rather than derived from a photograph. No camera, no stock, no likeness of anyone.

The structural version of the claim matters more than the wording: a product that accepts no photograph of a real person anywhere cannot produce one by accident. That is a feature never built rather than a setting switched off.

“Every woman here is a fictional, synthetic adult. Any resemblance to a real person — living or dead — is not intended, and not possible by design.”

See also NCII, Character sheet.

T

Token

A per-operator currency bought in packs and spent on actions whose prices are typically shown at the moment of the action rather than in advance. Most products in this category sell one.

Tokens do three things for an operator: they decouple the visible price from the real one, they let the rate move without a pricing-page edit, and they make an unspent balance a reason to stay. None of the three benefits the buyer, which is why the useful test of any of these products is whether you can find out what an image costs without starting to buy one.

See also Credit.

U

Uncensored

Used loosely across this category to mean anything from "will discuss sex" to "has no limits". The only honest version is the first: two adults can have an adult conversation without the model refusing on the grounds that the subject is sex.

It never means the hard floors move. A product marketing the word as a promise of no limits is describing a liability rather than a feature.

See also Hard floor.