Flirtly vs OurDream
OurDream is the largest product in this category and the most thoroughly documented. Its trust and safety site is a public record — what is allowed, what is refused under any framing, how moderation works, where a report goes — and its help centre publishes a full DreamCoin rate card: five coins for an in-chat image, fifty a minute for voice calls, a hundred per five seconds of video. It also refuses reference-photo uploads outright, and says so for the deepfake reason. Almost nobody else in this field does any of that.
The part worth knowing before subscribing is what happens when you stop. Their help centre says a refund cannot be issued once more than a quarter of what you bought has been used, that unused DreamCoins are removed when one is, and that on unsubscribing the images and videos you already generated are blurred until you resubscribe. The library you paid to make is rented.
Flirtly meters the same things and publishes the same kind of rate card, on the button rather than in a help article, and the cancel-and-refund commitment is a fixed window rather than a judgement about how much of it you consumed.
What OurDream does better
The best safety documentation in the category, a complete published coin rate card, and no reference-photo uploads at all — refused for the same reason we refuse them.
What’s the difference between Flirtly and OurDream?
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| What you should get | Flirtly | OurDream |
|---|---|---|
| Messages included every month, at a published price past them | Yes — Unlimited messages on every paid plantheir page, checked 2026-09-01 | |
| A memory you can open, correct and delete | Not established | |
| The price on the button, before you press it | Yes — A full coin rate card, in a help-centre articletheir page, checked 2026-09-01 | |
| Tonight follows from last night | Not established | |
| Cancel in one click, refunded within seven days | Committedwhen plans open | No refund once a quarter of it is usedtheir page, checked 2026-09-01 |
Every cell here is a claim about a named product, so each one carries the page it came from and the day we opened it. Rows we have not checked for OurDream are not on this table at all.
What we could not establish about OurDream
These are the rows where the table says "Not established". Each one is something we looked for and could not settle from anything OurDream publishes.
A memory you can open, correct and delete
OurDream sells "3x chat memory" as a Deluxe feature, which prices memory rather than showing it. Whether what she remembers can be opened and corrected sits behind an account we have not held.
Tonight follows from last night
Chat memory on OurDream widens with the tier, which describes a window rather than a record. How much of last night survives at either tier is not published and is not visible from outside an account.
Is Flirtly a good OurDream alternative?
For catalogue size and for published safety policy, OurDream is ahead and this page says so. Flirtly is the better answer if what you care about is the terms on the way out — a fixed refund window rather than one that closes once you have used a quarter of what you bought.
How much does Flirtly cost compared to OurDream?
OurDream sells a subscription that carries a monthly coin allowance, with the per-action coin costs published in a help article. Flirtly sells credits at 5 to the dollar, the rate for each action is published the same way, and the figure sits on the button at the moment of the decision.
One balance covers everything she does — messages, her voice, photos and clips. A new photo of her is 2 credits; a 5-second clip with her voice, 50.
Is there a free version of Flirtly?
Yes. 200 messages, uncensored for verified adults, no card required. Past the wallet everything is priced at the published rate, and nothing you generated stops being viewable because a subscription lapsed.
Questions people ask about OurDream
- What happens to your OurDream images if you unsubscribe?
- Their help centre says the images and videos you generated are blurred until you resubscribe, and that any unused DreamCoins are removed when a refund is processed. We checked both on 1 September 2026 and link the article from the table.
- Can I upload a photo to make an AI girlfriend?
- Not on Flirtly, and not on OurDream either — their help centre says reference-photo uploads are not allowed because of deepfakes and the legal problems that follow. It is the one row where the two products agree completely, and it is the right answer.
Pick OurDream for scale and for documentation nobody else here matches. Pick Flirtly if a refund you do not have to argue for is worth more than the catalogue.
No card · No photo uploads, ever · 18+
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