Flirtly vs Nomi
Nomi has the strongest memory in this category and it is not close. It publishes a Mind Map you can open — a graph of what your companion has worked out about your world, with a table view where an entry can be corrected, prioritised or added by you — sitting on top of short, medium and long-term memory and an Identity Core the companion maintains for herself. Their own write-up of how those layers fit together is more detailed than anything else published in this field, and worth reading before ours.
The gaps are commercial. Nomi publishes no plan page at all: /pricing returns a 404 and nothing on their own sitemap lists a tier or a rate, so what a subscription costs is discovered inside the app. And their refund policy runs to one operative sentence — payments are nonrefundable, with a full or partial refund available at their sole discretion.
Flirtly is the other trade. A smaller memory surface, open on the first day rather than after the five hundred messages Nomi says a Mind Map takes to form, and every rate published — a message, a voice note, a photo, a second of video — with the figure on the button before it is pressed.
What Nomi does better
The best memory work in the category: a Mind Map you can read and edit, an Identity Core underneath it, and years of published detail on how both behave.
What’s the difference between Flirtly and Nomi?
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| What you should get | Flirtly | Nomi |
|---|---|---|
| Messages included every month, at a published price past them | Not established | |
| A memory you can open, correct and delete | Yes — Mind Map: edit an entry, or add your owntheir page, checked 2026-09-01 | |
| The price on the button, before you press it | Not established | |
| Tonight follows from last night | Yes — Short, medium and long-term memory, plus an Identity Coretheir page, checked 2026-09-01 | |
| Cancel in one click, refunded within seven days | Committedwhen plans open | Nonrefundable; a refund is at their discretiontheir page, checked 2026-09-01 |
Every cell here is a claim about a named product, so each one carries the page it came from and the day we opened it. Rows we have not checked for Nomi are not on this table at all.
What we could not establish about Nomi
These are the rows where the table says "Not established". Each one is something we looked for and could not settle from anything Nomi publishes.
Messages included every month, at a published price past them
Nomi publishes no plan page — /pricing returns a 404 and nothing on their sitemap lists a tier — so what a subscription includes each month, and what it costs, only appears once you are inside the app.
The price on the button, before you press it
Nomi sells subscriptions plus virtual credits for one-time add-ons, and publishes the price of neither. There is nothing to hold beside our own per-action rates.
Is Flirtly a good Nomi alternative?
On memory, no — Nomi ships a Mind Map you can open and edit and documents the layers underneath it at length, and this page concedes that. Flirtly is the better answer if you want the price of a photo or a clip published before you spend it, and a refund commitment you can read rather than one left to discretion.
How much does Flirtly cost compared to Nomi?
Nomi publishes no price anywhere on its site; the plans appear after you are inside the app. Flirtly sells credits at 5 to the dollar with every rate printed, so the comparison a visitor can make before paying is one-sided by their choice rather than ours.
One balance covers everything she does — messages, her voice, photos and clips. A new photo of her is 2 credits; a 5-second clip with her voice, 50.
Is there a free version of Flirtly?
Yes — 200 messages, uncensored for verified adults, with no card and no photo upload. It is a wallet of real credits at the published rate, not a trial that expires into a different price.
Questions people ask about Nomi
- Does Nomi remember you?
- Better than anything else here. Their own update post describes a Mind Map that forms after roughly five hundred messages, with a table view where entries can be edited or added, over short, medium and long-term memory. We link that post from the table rather than paraphrase it.
- Can you get a refund from Nomi?
- Their refund policy says all payments are nonrefundable and that any partial or full refund is at their sole discretion, which we checked on 1 September 2026 and link from the table. When paid plans open, cancelling will be one click in account settings — no retention flow, no guilt — with a 7-day refund window on every charge and unused purchased credits refunded pro rata. It is written down here so you can hold us to it.
Pick Nomi if being remembered is the whole reason you are here. Pick Flirtly if you want the price published and the refund written down.
No card · No photo uploads, ever · 18+
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